Lying and manipulation are prevalent in our society, from the smallest of lies to the most significant manipulations. But what does the Bible say about these behaviors? As Christians, it is essential to understand what the Bible teaches about honesty and integrity.
This article explores what the Bible says about liars and manipulators, with relevant references to biblical passages. We will also discuss the consequences of these behaviors and how to overcome them.
The Definition of Lying and Manipulation
Lying is defined as the act of not telling the truth, while manipulation is the act of controlling or influencing someone or something unfairly or dishonestly. The Bible is clear about lying, and it is always wrong. In Proverbs 12:22, it says, “The LORD detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy.” Manipulation is not directly mentioned in the Bible, but it is often associated with deceitful behavior, which is condemned in Scripture.
The Consequences of Lying and Manipulation
Lying and manipulation have severe consequences both in this life and the next. Proverbs 19:5, says, “A false witness will not go unpunished, and whoever pours out lies will not go free.” Revelation 21:8, says, “But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters, and all liars–their place will be in the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death.”
Lying and manipulation also have consequences in our relationships with others. Proverbs 26:28 says, “A lying tongue hates those it hurts, and a flattering mouth works ruin.” Lying and manipulation can damage our relationships with others, destroy trust, and cause deep hurt.
Overcoming Lying and Manipulation
The first step in overcoming lying and manipulation is acknowledging the problem. We must recognize that these behaviors are wrong and seek forgiveness from God and others we have hurt. Proverbs 28:13 says, “Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.”
Next, we must focus on living a life of honesty and integrity. This means being truthful in all our words and actions and avoiding situations where we may be tempted to lie or manipulate. Psalm 25:21 says, “May integrity and uprightness protect me because my hope, LORD, is in you.”
Finally, we must ask God for help in overcoming these behaviors. Philippians 4:13 says, “I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” With God’s help, we can overcome lying and manipulation and live a life of honesty and integrity.
Conclusion
In conclusion, the Bible is clear about lying and manipulation. These behaviors are wrong and have severe consequences. As Christians, we must strive to live a life of honesty and integrity, seeking forgiveness for our past mistakes and focusing on living a truthful life in the future. With God’s help, we can overcome lying and manipulation and live a life that honors Him.
References
Proverbs 12:22
Proverbs 19:5
Proverbs 26:28
Psalm 25:21
Philippians 4:13
Revelation 21:8
Joseph Bates is a teacher at the University of Holy Cross. He has served on the staff of Northern Baptist and United Methodist churches in Tampa, Ohio, and Florida.
